Work the Room!

Any student of pick-up has likely heard of the idea of “working the room.” Attraction is often venue-specific. For example, there are some occupations that often give one access to countless sexual partners, such as being a musician, actor, plastic surgeon, or some sort of celebrity. Yet, the boss of a pizzeria shop can often sleep with many of his female employees if he is so inclined. A Domino's manager doesn’t often make much money, but in that environment, he is socially dominant for no other reason than he is the boss. Ask any nightclub bouncer how many times they are sexually propositioned any given week. Again, they hardly make more than a movie theater usher, but in that setting, the nightclub, they wield tremendous power and therefore, dominance.

In any particular venue, the most socially dominant male has his pick of all the females while the “nice guys” get drunk and hit on the scraps. I have exploited this principle in my night game. When I go out with the goal of getting a same night pull (SNP),* I purposely work the room. Thinking over my successes and those of my closest wings, we have all employed this same strategy: Open everything with two X chromosomes, hook ‘em and get them loving you, and sooner or later, the women who is also looking to go home and is logistically able to do so will pop up out of no where and often open you. If you read over my recent LR with HBSweetTits, you’ll see that I applied this principle, though I was not consciously aware of it at the time. Conversely, if you look over my failed attempt at seducing HBCockTease, you’ll see that one cardinal mistake I made was latching onto her like a horny dog instead of working the room, which would actually bait her to chase me. Never again will I make that mistake.

When you work the room, something else happens: people left and right supplicate to you like a bunch of babies crying to suck at their mommies’ tits. Bouncers move out of the way and let you in without looking at your driver’s license. Men and women alike buy you drinks, snacks, and even dinners. The hornier women open you or at least gather around you. People move out of your way as you walk around the venue. This is the pinnacle of social dominance.

Of course, this strategy is not a requirement for SNP success, but I find it easier than having to screen the women I want for logistics. This way, the women with the raging hormones and the right logistics come to me. Even if you don’t end up taking someone home, I save myself lots of money anyway.

*For you newbies, a same night pull is similar to a one night stand in that you have sex with the women the same day or night you meet her. The difference is with a one night stand, there is an assumption that the sex is a one time deal and you’ll never see each other again. With a SNP, you do see her again and the sexual relationship is ongoing.