Fortes Fortuna Adiuvat!

They say parting is such sweet sorrow, but I knew this day would come. I am ceasing to update this blog. It will remain online as a guidebook for those who still need it - or need a Dicknotism refresher. However, I have moved on from pickup and onto bigger life matters, including my new career and a whole new set of skills to master.

This blog will remain online - at least for a while - as an answer to the the conflicting, confusing advice of the pick-up community and the utterly worthless dating advice available in the mainstream. Here is where you can get accurate, honest advice on seduction without having to purchase an endless string of e-books and audio programs. This blog is my gift to all of you.

Never forget the three fundamental tenets of Dicknotism:
1) To devote yourself every day to becoming the best person you can be in every area of your life
2) To find your passion and transform it into a vehicle of helping others to your maximum ability
3) To create a culture where both men and women are unapologetic of their sexual desires, confident and comfortable in their own power, and empathetic of others.

It's been an incredible journey and I wish all of you the best. My email is still available for those of you who have questions or need guidance: dicknotist at gmail dot com.

Take care, good luck, and so long!

-The Dicknotist

Meet Sebastian Drake

One guy in the community who has been particularly instrumental in helping me build more solid, meaningful relationships is Sebastian Drake. Unlike other PUAs that teach guys to use negs and attack a woman's self-esteem, Sebastian challenges you to create a relationship where you build each other up. It's not all about fucking everything that moves, but actually being moved by women you fuck.

The above video is from the 2007 PUA Summit and is hardly knew, but the advice is timeless.

-The D